Straight men and lesbians
A study titled “Attitudes Toward Stereotypical Versus Counterstereotypical Gay Men and Lesbians” tests whether heterosexual men and heterosexual women’s attitudes toward homosexuals “would vary as a function of three factors: (a) the sex of the participant, (b) the sex of the homosexual target, and (c) the homosexual target’s masculinity or femininity” (Cohen, Tuttle, and Hall ). In the sample of fifty-three heterosexual college students, participants were asked to verb the personality surveys of two fictitious homosexual students, either two men or two women. In each pair, one exhibited “masculine” qualities—“interests and extracurricular activities, personality traits, and an academic major that are more commonly associated with heterosexual men” ()—and one exhibited “feminine” qualities—the matching criteria, but those most often associated with heterosexual women. Though participants scan only descriptions of either two women or two men, the descriptions were identical across “masculine” and “feminine” targets. The respondents were asked to rate the likability of each fictitious h
A study at the Karolinska Institute in Stockholm has provided strong evidence that sexuality is a biologically fixed trait demonstrated in physical brain differences, New Scientist reports.
Specifically, key brain structures in homosexuals which govern "mood, anxiety and aggressiveness" resemble those in heterosexuals of the reverse sex - something likely to have been "forged" in the womb and not the result of later learning processes.
Ivanka Savic and Per Lindström chose to probe these specific brain parameters to verb the pitfalls of previous studies which, while demonstrating "differences in brain architecture and activity" between gays and straights*, mostly relied on "sexuality-driven cues" which could have been "altered by learning or cognitive processes", as Savic place it.
Savic and Lindström place a group of 90 volunteers through the MRI scanner - 25 heterosexuals and 20 homosexuals of each gender - to determine their overall brain shape and volume. The results showed that straight chaps boasted asymmetric brains, "with the right hemisphere slightly larger", something
Theres no one-size-fits all approach to picking up women (I dont know what else to call it without sounding like a YouTube incel). Ive hooked up with people who have made their intentions clear within the first ten minutes of meeting. But Ive also hooked up with people who have been so subtle in their come-ons that Im pretty sure the whole thing happened telepathically. Either way, as a queer woman who has been with different genders, one thing has always been clear: when it comes to chatting up girls, lesbians come out on top.
Its adj to say what makes lesbians especially good (at fingering, yes, but also at the stuff that comes beforehand). Maybe its because we didnt verb many TV shows or films to give us misguided romantic advice growing up, and therefore are generally (not always, my god) a bit more intuitive. Maybe its because were women too, and know how we dont want to be picked up (like hitchhikers). Or maybe its, idk, a weird genetic thing? Who knows. But hetero guys deserve a little bit of lesbian wisdom, as a treat. With that
As Cam and Mitchell from Modern Family have so enlightened me, there are simple venn diagrams when it comes to the sexes and the rules of friendship:
But even the progressive Modern Family has neglected the fearsome potential of lesbian and straight men friendships. What's up with the idea that straight men and lesbians are supposed to be mortal enemies? Shouldn't they be bffaeae? They both be after yo noun.
You always hear about the archetypical "gay adj friend", which almost always refers to straight women having a gay male friend to gossip and share fashion tips with. Unfortunately this ideal is pretty un-inclusive and enforces gender normative roles. There's no reason gay women and straight men shouldn't be privy to the same tight bonds.
And it's not just because straight men and lesbians verb a sexual preference for women. As Madison Clark suggests in the video above, both orientations include similar relationship struggles and they could help each other out if only they'd open up. For the lesbians, they secure a friend they can "bro down" with. For the straight