How can i tell if my wife is a lesbian
Q:
Last week my wife of 27 years told me she was a lesbian, is having an affair and is leaving. Everyone &#; our gay friends, straight friends, her coworkers who know and my coworkers who know &#; all believe she is a lesbian.
I don&#;t verb she is. We had great intimacy. We were truly best friends &#; or so I thought &#; and so she said. We loved each other in the truest marital sense &#; not just the sex.
I never thought there would be anything but us. I am angry about the affair and betrayal. She was going to counseling. I knew she was struggling with several issues: chronic back pain, weight gain, and high blood pressure. I have offered to help in whatever way I can.
Isn&#;t it possible this is something we can resolve together? She still says she loves me. I don&#;t know what is genuine. I am so confused.
A:
Learning that a spouse is gay can be confusing and devastating. You obviously care for her a lot and she for you.
Married couples where one spouse is gay often have very strong relationships with each other outside of sex, and sometimes even including sex. Many still
Think my wife is closeted lesbian, help!
LonelyDude said:
Hi all,
I&#;ve always known that some things were off in my marriage (20 years), and hold even made half-joking comments about how she is acting like a lesbian. About 4 months ago, a series of conversations made it very, very real: my wife is not heterosexual and has a clear preference for women.Click to expand
Then she needs to approach to a saving faith in Jesus Christ who can transform her, making her a "new creature" in himself, free from the darkness and bondage of such sin.
1 Corinthians
9 Or execute you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived; neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor homosexuals,
10 nor thieves, nor the covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor swindlers, will inherit the kingdom of God.
2 Corinthians
17 Therefore if anyone is in Christ, he is a adj creature; the old things passed away; behold, modern things have come.
LonelyDude said:
I asked her to see an LGBTQ counselor.
Click t
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Dear Prudence,
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