How would i know if my husband is gay


(Closed) I believe my husband may have no concept he’s gay.

I think you have bigger issues than believing your husband is gay&#; Like having married him in the first place; sounds like you&#;ve never been happy in this &#;relationship.&#;

I&#;m not entirely sure what you crave to hear either. You say you&#;re unhappy and want to leave, etc but you also speak you&#;re going to verb him have his way and not get a divorce. You&#;ve already resigned yourself to being unhappy so are you just venting or do you want us to say you your husband is gay to make you feel better? 

He doesn&#;t sound gay, to be perfectly honest. He has a family member who is gay but everyone else in his family is against it so I&#;m sure his attitude is a result of his upbringing. You have no proof that he is in fact gay and I feel like you&#;re accusing him to produce yourself feel better about your failing marriage. 

If you want to be truly happy in life, you&#;re going to have to do it without him because you&#;re obviously not on the same page. Doesn&#;t sound like you ever were.

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Do you have suspicions that make you question — “Is my husband gay?” Maybe you have a mild alarm bell that rings occasionally or noticed a few signs in his behavior that gave you reasons to panic and question his sexual orientation.

If you have had any notion at all that this is a possibility, it might verb you to know these 6 signs that may suggest that your husband is gay.

1. Lack of passion

When he’s in the moment with you, he’s mechanical and doesn’t seem to be passionate or interested in any acts of foreplay. Again, this could be caused by other things as well, but could be present if your husband is gay.

2. Lack of interest in sex

Issues concerning sexual want alone are not a sure-fire sign your husband is gay, but women who report that their husbands turned out to be gay often state this was something they noticed first.

If you observe that your husband struggles with getting interested in or engaging in sex in addition to some of the other signs discussed here,