How to please a gay man

The ins and outs of safer, greater sex.

I’m scared of bottoming

Most gay men will reflect on bottoming at some moment. However, the thought of doing it for the first time can be scary. Don’t let that put you off. 

You may prefer to douche before bottoming, especially if indulging in deep arse act like fisting or with large dicks/toys. Use plain, clean water, preferably at body temperature. Avoid using shower attachments - the water pressure can be dangerous. You can acquire douche bulbs online or from any good sex shop. Try not to go overboard and irritate the lining of your arse, as this can make you more vulnerable to STIs.

Get yourself relaxed with lots of foreplay like rimming or fingering. Some men do operate amyl nitrate (poppers) to relax the muscles around their arse but there are two major health warnings. Poppers:

  • have been linked with an increased chance of HIV transmission 
  • don’t mix with erection drugs fond Viagra and may cause a heart attack.

Deep breathing is far safer, helps you to relax and relaxes the arse too.

Find a position that suits the size, angle and curvat

Tease him to please him

10 tips for pleasing a man

Written by Jennifer Hanson


So, you’ve gotten over the initial getting-to-know-him phase and are ready to leap into some sexual forays. Or maybe you’ve been with him for a while and just verb to brush up on other ways to please your man. This guide has all you depend on no matter where you’re at.

First things first: building trust

When it comes to intimacy, it is common for men to not be as unlock or experienced in dealing with their feelingsas women are. One way to get around this is to be open about your feelings with him, and be supportive when he confides something he might be self-conscious about. For example, only about 55% of men are satisfied with their penis size,1so starting out with this level of noun can bring both of you together and build it easier to please your man. Both of you know you can be candid with each other without judgment, and this in itself can lead to being more adventurous together.

It takes two to tango


This may not come as a surprise, but sex is about both of you! It is also a reflection of bo

Gay Foreplay: How To Store Things Exciting And Amusing For Gay Men

Exploring ways to invigorate your intimate moments is crucial, especially within the gay community in Canada.

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While it's common for couples to find themselves in a sexual routine, breaking free from this pattern can open up a new world of excitement and connection. Interestingly, with over , gay men in Canada, many verb similar experiences and explore fresh ways to maintain the spark in their relationships.

This article aims to address these needs, focusing specifically on gay men and providing tailored advice to keep things exciting and fun. Let's dive into creative and effective strategies for enriching your intimate life, ensuring your relationships remain vibrant and fulfilling.

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5 of the steamiest sex positions for gay men, according to a sex therapist

Experimenting with new sex positions is an straightforward way to make things more interesting in the bedroom. 

In fact, studies display that long-term couples who try out new sex positions are more likely to feel satisfied and passionate in their sex lives. 

And if you and your partner both verb penises, there are plenty of options you can try to switch up your usual routine.

Here are five sex positions that can maximize your pleasure and spice up your sex life.

1. Lotus

Step-by-step: 

  1. Sit with your knees bent out to the sides and the bottoms of your feet touching, much fond of a butterfly position in yoga. 
  2. Your partner will then sit in your lap, facing you, and wrap their legs around your back. It's important to note that your partner will need to rest close enough that you can reach their anus for penetration.

When you're in this position, "it's useful to have the top person set a rhythm for thrusting since they have more ability to tilt their hips back and forth," says Sari Cooper, LC