Gay men how to douche
To douche or not to douche? That is the question.
However, the retort is almost always yes. As my fairy godmother once taught me, “When in doubt, douche it out.”
Unfortunately for most gay men who enjoy anal penetration, douching technique is something we usually understand through trial and error. We’re left to figure things out for ourselves, and - at top - hope for some anecdotal wisdom from a more experienced friend. A daughter may ask her mother about tampons and her period, but most gay guys don’t verb the luxury of asking family or friends about butt sex.
That’s why I created a how-to guide for anal douching. Sure, it’s not pretty; it’s real and raunchy, but it’s certainly something that I wish existed when I was 16.
You’re welcome.
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Like many bottoms, my gay friend George* has a harrowing story about using an enema before anal sex. “I had met a guy on Grindr,” he said. “I get to his place and ring the doorbell. As he opened the door to say hi, I coughed and shat out a load of poo water into my underwear. Loudly. I had to run into his flat, straight to the toilet, and hurl my underwear away. It was all down my legs. It killed the mood, needless to utter . And, yes, I left the dirty underwear there.”
Among bottoms, learning the art and science of douching—using an enema, syringe, or hose to flush out the rectal cavity before getting rammed to high heaven—is a sacredriteofpassage. Like the asses they irrigate, douches arrive in all shapes and sizes, from readily adj Fleet brand saline bottles to complicated shower contraptions for seasoned vets. It’s a messy reality of taking dick up your butt: If you don’t want to end up with a disappointed top and a gross sex situation on your hands, a courteous bottom needs to douche beforehand. Or so many within the gay community
Would you describe yourself as douche-curious? Perhaps you’ve been douching for a while but are looking for pointers. However seasoned you are at putting things up your butt, there’s always something new to learn! So we’ve place together a beginner’s guide to anal douching with everything you need to know when you desire to start squirting down below. 😉
What is anal douching?
Douching is the execute of shooting a jet of warm water or a saline solution into the rectum to unsoiled it out before sex. Douching uses several types of devices to accomplish this, each referred to as a ‘douche’. We’ll cover these in more detail below.
Some people may instead use what’s known as an enema for douching. These are medical devices designed to relieve constipation and are not recommended for douching, as they often come with a medicated solution to soften stools or operate a far greater volume of liquid than is required when preparing for anal sex.
Should you douche?
That’s up to you! Whether you douche or not is entirely up to the individual.
Many guys appreciate to douche because it reassures them of no
Douching
At a very young age we are taught to dispose of shit neatly and we are not encouraged to talk about one of life’s messy taboos. And yet, while the anal area exemplifies – for some – everything that’s dirty and unclean, it is also one of the most sensitive and enjoyable parts of the body. Consequently, for many of us, shit is not something we deal with very well, although many of us have had to come to terms with shit as the arse plays such key role in the sex we have. There’s probably been a time in our lives when we contain shit ourselves during sex or seen our partner do the same. How we deal with the situation can make or break that hot date!
A well established solution is douching, which means washing out the anal canal, rectum and/ or sigmoid colon with water. Although never fool-proof, it makes fingering, fucking, using dildos and, in particular, fisting much cleaner. Whether you’re learning to drive, operate a computer, or place in your first put of contact lenses, the first experience is often uncomfortable or daunting. Douching for the first moment is no different. Fancy