In love with my gay best friend


He's good-looking, hot, smart, complex, fun and sexy. Oh, and one more thing: He's gay. You care your gay male guy, but would you exposure falling in love with him? It's an issue that more than one woman has had to deal with in a relationship that is a perfect blend of everything except sex.

During the earliest days of my writing career, my best ally Brett and I were in a situation that we liked to phone "dateless dating," meaning that we weren't a couple but spent the so-called date nights with each other. Both of us were involved in building our journalism careers, and we had no moment for significant others, so we did everything together: movies, Broadway shows and weekend candlelit dinners of pizza and wine. We even went on vacations together, and one day swam naked in the Gulf of Mexico at night. Everyone assumed we were in love but, truly, romance had no part in our relationship. We loved each other but we could never be in love and we never went beyond the quick greeting or parting kiss and clasp. I respected Brett's sexual orientation as he respected mine. Our friendsh

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